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Weeping in Islam - Islam Recommends Weeping and Wailing
The Prophet (S) once informed Abu Dhar (AR), one of his pious companions that:
O Abu Dhar! Whoever is able to cry let him cry.
Whoever is not able to cry then let him have his
heart feel sadness and let him try to cry. Surely,
the hard heart is far from Allah (SWT), but they
do not realize.
O Abu Dhar! Allah (SWT) has not been worshipped
with a thing like that of length of grief.
In Qur'an, man has been constantly advised to fear Allah (SWT) and shed tears
when communicating with the Almighty, the One with Absolute Power. A good cry
can be good for the body and soul. Apparently, crying has evolved as an effective
tool in eliminating stress and emotional unbalances, and is a healing of the soul.
The one conclusion that scientists have inferred is the
advantages of providing a
safe place in which to notice feelings, and to listen to each other cry. This kind of
practice can be seen in many religions and the events in September 11, 2001 in New
York have made this kind of practice a normal way to express and share feelings
of sadness. The only difference is that the Shiite Muslims - as we shall note later
- have been doing this for centuries, several days in a year, and sometimes for
weeks.
Further, this is exactly what Muslims do in their gatherings as they remember their
iniquity and wrongdoing whilst praying to Allah (SWT) to forgive their submissive
souls. As these people become more humble, submissive and remembering their
faults - we have noted earlier in several studies that these actions in a group result
in sharing of the favorable info-energy and the energy fields thus become stable
and highly charged. This is the true meaning of piety.
al-Kubra (1981) writes the following in his book A Treatise on Spiritual Wayfaring,
and considers grief as one of the many qualities that every devout and pious person
should try to attain. According to him:
The sixth principle is permanent grief (huzn). The
Prophet (S) said, God loves every grieving heart.
Regarding the Prophet's attributes,
it is said that
he was always in the state of contemplation and
grief.
According to the learned scholars of reason, every
heart, which is devoid of grief, is nothing but clay.
How can a believer manage to be cheerful while
he does not know what was written by the pen of
pre-eternity about his fate, whether it is felicity
or wretchedness? In addition, he is unaware of
his end, for he does not know what he will earn
tomorrow (in the way of virtue or vice). He does
not know whether his obedience will be accepted
by God or not, and whether his sins will be
pardoned or not.
Shaykh Abul-Hasan al-Kharqani was among the
people of grief. One day he was asked the reason
of the grief of the great mystics. He replied that
the reason is that they want to know God, as He
deserves to be known. That is impossible. For no
one can know God, as He deserves to be known.
Shiite Islam
In the book, A Plan to Divide and Destroy The Theology an interview with Dr.
Michael Brant, a former CIA agent says that the US government has always been
against the Shiite Muslim's practices of Azadari, and their efforts to bury this
practice.
In Shiite Islam the practice of mourning of al-
Husain (AS) brings about great emotion within the
Shiites. The Shiites get together to commemorate
and recall the event of Karbala. One person recites
and/or speaks of the tragedy that took place and
presents a vivid picture of Karbala. The young
and the old grief and mourn for Husain (AS)
and his household. The speaker and the masses
that attend the lecture are important to consider.
It is due to this gathering and speech that the
emotions of Shiites are invigorated in such a way
that they are ready to stand up and fight for the
truth against falsehood and evil, even if it costs
them their lives. Hence, billions of dollars must
be spent in order to not only hijack the speakers
but also the mass.
First off, those Shiites who are more materialistic
and whose beliefs are weak, which have some
fame and can be used as sources amongst the
people must be found. These people will be used
in order to influence the saying of the Azadari
practice. Then to bring out and encourage such
speakers who do not possess correct knowledge
or the gnosis of Shiite Islam. Furthermore, look
for and find those Shiites who need some kind
of financial or material gain and use them to
campaign against the Shiite faith.
Weaken the foundations of the Shiites and
blame it all on the Shiite scholars and leaders. To
encourage such practices in the mourning of al-
Husain (AS) which do not conform the real Shiite
beliefs and introduce new practices, which will be
against the teachings of the Shiite faith.
Present the Shiite Azadari practices as a group
of ignorant and violent people who create
disturbances amongst the general masses.
(Already can be found in various news articles on
the internet) Sanction large funds to disseminate
such movements and promote the speakers
who will speak in a way as to present Azadari as
something illogical. Hence, a school of thought
based on logic will be presented to be without
logic and spurious. This is to cause distress and
dissections between the Shiites. At the end strike
them in the weaker moment.
Research, investigate, gather information against
the Shiite scholars and leaders, and then provide
this information to unknown writers. Spend vast
amount of money to propagate the distorted
information. Spread this literature amongst the
general people and speakers. In this way, during
the last phase of this movement against the Shiites,
the final blow would be to dismantle the central
authority on which Shiites rely for their verdicts.
By 2010 this is to be achieved and disperse the
Shiites and weaken them. The Shiites themselves
to destroy the power of the Shiite scholars would
subdue the authority of Shiite scholars, which
would stand up to the ruling authorities. Some of
the activities for such a movement have already
been launched successfully. Some are on the way
to be executed in the future.
In brief, al-Husain, son of Ali (AS), the chief of martyrs, was the grandson of the
Prophet (S) and the third divinely appointed guide after him. He, along with 18
members of his family and relatives as well as 72 faithful companions, was slain
while thirsty on the lands of Karbala, Iraq on the tenth of Muharram (known as
Day of Ashura) in the year 61 AH (680 AD) by the brutal army of Yazid in an
inequitable and imposed battle.
In al-Amali by al-Mufid, al-Sadiq says:
Whoever sheds a tear over our spilled blood, or
over our usurped rights, or over the dishonor we
have suffered, or any of our followers has suffered,
Allah, Most High, shall bless such a person in
paradise for a long period.
In the same al-Amali by al-Mufid, al-Husain says:
Whoever sheds a tear from his eyes for us, or fills
his eyes with tears for us, Allah will grant him for
that an eternal place in paradise.
It is customary for one to begin his or her new-year marked with joy. However,
there is but one unique community, whose people begin their year with grief and
sadness. They cry, lament, and come out in processions holding black flags and
banners to deliver their message of Islam.
This community attends gatherings throughout the first two months of any given
year, and shed tears for their leader al-Husain (AS) who has proven beyond doubt
to be the leader of all martyrs and the savior of the religion Islam. al-Husain (AS)
together with his close family members and children were brutally massacred on
this month more than a thousand years ago, but he never stood for evil or bowed
down to infidelity. This community sheds tears in remembrance of this great and
revered family and their sufferings and cry aloud to answer the call al-Husain (AS)
made to all Muslims nearing the end of the sacred war in Karbala:
Is there anyone from amongst the helpers to help
us? Is there anyone from amongst the responders
to respond to us?
Besides crying over the death of his close relatives, the Prophet of Islam (S) wept
on several other occasions, including for his grandson al-Husain (AS). This total
state of grief and sadness, piety and lamenting over sins, and crying over al-
Husain (AS) and his family members, all result in alteration in the energy fields
and spiritual growth, and one reaps the benefits of sharing the energy within
the commemorative group. The info-energy of al-Husain (AS) and the events in
Karbala are re-introduced to this group at all times from such commemoration and
the advantages have been noted.
Further, and as we have noted before, the replicas of sacred shrines and crypts
in these gatherings only add to the vibrations and favorable info-energy within
the commemorative group. Shiite Muslims do not worship these shrine replicas,
but only sympathize with what happened hundreds of years ago and re-live the
scenery. Also, because of their nature, purpose and reverence, and because the
physical, spiritual and mental approaches to these shrines have been forever pure,
these very replicas have within them sacred energy with higher rates of vibration,
pure and unadulterated info-energy that is conscious, and stores the memories
that can have a significant effect at the energy level.
Significance of Tears
Shedding tears (whether it is meant for commemorative purposes or the fear of
Allah (SWT) holds a strong significance in Islam. In a pioneer study of primal
patients, Dr. William Frey of St. Paul Ramsey Medical Center and Dr. Barry
Bernfield of the Primal Institute (U.S.) measured ACTH (stress hormone) in
human tears. Results indicated that human tears may aid in stress reduction by
the removal of ACTH through crying. From this psycho-biochemical view we can
understand why so many people, normal as well as patient populations report
feeling better after crying. Apparently, the act of crying also releases blockages
within the human energy system and replaces them with higher frequencies of
energy from the higher energy sources, and the reason why one feels good after
shedding tears for any particular purpose.
Bernfield (1983) writes:
Not only is the venting of emotions liberating,
the actual chemical composition of the tears
themselves may be involved in increased feeling
of well-being. This theory suggests that tears of
emotion may be chemically different from other
types of tears; i.e., irritant. This has been shown to
be the case regarding some substance, specifically
protein concentrations but no chemical found in
emotional tears has been shown to be associated
with emotional stress.
I find it exciting that research from many areas
seems to support the work at the Primal Institute.
That crying is natural, healthy and curative has
always been our position, and I feel confident that
more and more research will shed light on the
natural healing abilities of humans in the years
to come.
As we have noted, researchers and lay people alike have recommended a
commemorative gathering at different intervals to commemorate the 9/11 attacks
on the US soil, the World Trade Center. Researches continue to reiterate the
importance of such commemorative groups. Apparently, they have understood the
importance and energy perspective of being in a group setting and sharing sadness
and shedding tears. Shiite Muslims do this throughout the year, commemorating
the death of all the Infallible and important person in Islam.
It is reported that on the Day of Judgment, the eyes that wept in tears commemorating
the death of al-Husain and his sacred family, Fatima, the mother of al-Husain will
have gathered all the tears and will present them as evidence in favor of the Shiites
who cried for her son. Now we understand - just as Allah will order all the body
parts of the person to unite before awakening on the Final Day, in the same way
Fatima will re-collect the energy of all the tears that either dropped into ones face
or in a handkerchief that has been washed and re-washed. The energy from the
tears will remain and each individual will have access to those tears on the Final
Day as evidence.
Ahmad bin Yahya al-Azdi said that I saw Husain
bin Ali (AS) in my dream and I said, Mukhawwal
bin Ibrahim narrated for me, from Rabi bin
Munthir, from his father, from you, that you have
said:
The tears of those slaves who shed tears on us will
be collected and kept in containers in Paradise
for them.
Is this true?
Husain bin Ali (AS) replied, Yes.
I said, From now on, I will narrate this Hadith
quoting you directly. (Amali of Mufid & Tusi)
Fatima (AS) is reported to not only collect all the tears that flow from one's eyes
but also be present in all gatherings that remember her son and commemorate the
event of Karbala. Together with other Infallible (AS), this makes her origin from
light as she has the power to be at different places at one time, and at different
continents - the same is the case with the 12th Imam al-Mahdi who is able to
respond to queries throughout the world, how Ali ventured into other worlds, and
so forth.
The followers of Ali, Fatima and al-Husain even go to the extent to bury themselves
with the handkerchief or cloth that is filled with the tears of the sufferings of al-
Husain and the merciless massacre of his entire family including infants, even
though the tears can be collected as evidence from any source. Shiites also bury
themselves with the soil from Karbala (this land has already been introduced) and
al-Mahdi has the following remarks in this reference:
Yes, it can be kept in the grave. Moreover, by the
command of Allah! The threads of the shroud are
mixed with the soil.
Undoubtedly, these acts have been reported to be very successful after one's death
and during the questioning in the grave. The angels concerned would be able to
read the information within the surrounding energy of the materials he or she is
buried with. Shiite Muslims consider the intercession of al-Husain as one of the
most revered type of intercession and considered most successful. This kind of
behavior and clothing on a dead person, before he is buried, can be observed in all
Shiite Muslims.
Ayatullah Sayyid Shahbuddin al-Mar'ashi (one of the great scholars of understanding
in the history of Islam) wrote the following will to his children:
Every Thursday night my sons should come to
my grave, recite the Holy Qur'an, and listen to the
remembrance of Imam al-Husain (AS).
O my son, every Thursday night, ask someone to
come to the side of my grave and recite about the
suffering of Imam al-Husain (AS).
Avail yourself of the blessings of the Ziyarat of
the Holy Ahlul-Bayt (AS). Reach the places where
they are buried, after reciting salutations, repent,
and ask dua - in these actions there is untold
benefits.
The tasbih, made from the earth of Karbala with
which I used to recite my Istighfar (asking for
forgiveness) should be buried with me.
I have gathered the earth from the graves of
Ahlul-Bayt (AS) the Holy Imams (AS), their
children, their companions and scholars in a
small bag. Bury it in my grave with me, so that
I am blessed.
Also put in my grave the black clothes I use to
wear in the grief-ridden remembrance of the
sufferings of the children of the Holy Prophet (S)
during the months of Muharram and Safar.
After shrouding me place on my chest the
handkerchief with which I used to wipe my tears
in mourning my grandfather (AS)
Significance of Black Clothing
Color has been used for centuries to denote disposition. Learned scholars today
wear black or black and white for simplicity, and white to symbolize purity.
Besides crying and shedding tears, this Shiite community also wears black clothing
throughout the period of sadness and decorates black for forty consecutive days in
the month of Muharram. This is to commemorate the sufferings and killings of al-
Husain (AS) and his family.
As noted earlier, this community also meets on several other days during the
year to commemorate the sufferings and martyrdom of the remaining Infallible,
the Prophet and very important persons in history. They also meet together and
commemorate the passing away of their loved ones for forty days. Moreover, this
gathering of people also observes black clothing when they commemorate these
days of Wafat, several days throughout the year, which denote the death of an
Infallible Imam (AS), or a spiritual leader.
The color black is for a reason and according to the science of color, black is
considered the color of sadness. Moreover, black tends to anchor in that sadness
because it sits in the human energy. Wearing black can actually prolong and even
influence the grief and suffering (Lindgren et. al., 1997). This is probably the reason
why learned scholars from the Sayyid family (descendants of al-Husain (AS) wear
black turbans (so they are able to maintain the sorrow if they so wish). The Prophet
(S) also wore a black turban when he was commemorating a sad event and a white
turban when leading prayer. However, to observe black clothing is considered
abominable during prayer, unless the individual is commemorating a sad event.
The importance of white clothing during prayer has been noted earlier.
In any case, one of the main reason why the Shiites, followers of Ali and al-Husain
still weep and wail till today after hundreds of years, and express sadness as if the
event of Karbala took place yesterday, is because all the followers of al-Husain have
within their body a part of clay that was originally formed and molded to make the
Perfect Creations, the Infallible. This means that all the followers of al-Husain have
within them living energy and conscious info-energy from the original clay that
made Fatima, Ali, al-Husain, the Prophet and the remaining Infallible. Because of
this physical, spiritual and energy interactions, their experiences also happen to be
our experiences. The energy of the event, and people commemorating the event for
decades is also present in the universal energy field and can be accessed and the
reason why the sadness continues to exist.
al-Majlisi quotes al-Baqir saying that:
The Most High formed Muhammad of clay, which
was a gem under the Empyrean. From the excess
of the clay, the Commander of the Faithful was
formed, and from the superabundance after his
creation, the college of the Infallible was formed.
And from what remained, the hearts of all the
Shiites were made.
In another tradition, this can be seen in al-Amali:
The Prophet said to Ali, May I not give you glad
news? May I not award you? He said, Yes, O
Messenger of Allah. He (i.e. the Prophet) said:
Surely, you and I are created from the same clay
and from what remained, our Shia were created.
When the Day of Reckoning will dawn, all people
will be called by their mother's names, except
your Shia, who will be called by the names of their
fathers, confirming their legitimacy.
On a separate note, it is reported that scores of angels have made their resting
abode in the grounds of Karbala after al-Husain refused their assistance to help
him fight with the infidels and that these angels were ready to do anything to
overpower the infidels during the war. These angels will remain in Karbala until
al-Mahdi (the Shiite 12th Infallible in occultation who will reappear with Prophet
Isa, Jesus (AS) to bring back the Truth in this world) reappears and avenges the
blood of al-Husain and his blessed family. After receiving his ability to fly from
touching the body (or cradle) of al-Husain (AS), we noted earlier that angel Fitrus
(AS) is now the servant of al-Husain.
al-Mahdi remarks the following in his Salutations to al-Husain and his sacred
family, and recorded in the Ziyarat of al-Nahiya:
Peace be upon the one for whom the angels of the
sky wept. Peace be upon you and upon the angels
that accompanied you.
al-Mufid (AR) has narrated through his chain of transmitters, that al-Sadiq said
that when al-Husain left Madina, a group of angels, having distinct marks, met
him on the way. They carried swords in their hands and had mounted the horses
of paradise. They came to al-Husain, saluted him and said,
O Allah's Proof upon
the creatures after your grandfather, father and brother! Allah, the Glorious had
rendered help to your grandfather through our medium in many of his battles,
and has now sent us to assist you. True, the angels are servants of the Infallible, as
narrated by the Prophet.